Learning more about your body can help reclaim ownership of our pleasure

Everyone is welcome here, singles, couples & poly groupings, regardless of gender expression, religion, ethnicity, relationship style, body type or sexual preferences.

My question to you is this: how can we explore ways of doing things differently to access more pleasure in our bodies?

Your safety is of upmost importance.

If you are choosing to explore learning through bodywork safety is important. Certified Sexological Bodyworkers & Certified Somatic Sex Educators are bound by a code of professional conduct & ethics set out by the SSEAA. Sexological Bodywork is an educational modality where the touch if there is any is client lead, one way from the practitioner to the recipient, the practitioner remains clothed & wears gloves for any genital touch. 

Services focused totally on you.

Relax

Full-body Massage

Take some time out just for you. With a relaxing full body massage. This is a great way to meet Patrick before deciding on other services that you may wish to explore or perhaps this is all you need. With more than 20 years experience as a bodyworker this may be the best massage you’ve ever had.

Learn

Sexological Bodywork

This is the sex education that you never got but always wanted. Learn more about your body, boundaries, communication, sex, pleasure & relationships. Sessions can be in person or on line. These sessions are always client lead and focus on enthusiastic full body consent with a clear learning objective.

Enjoy

4 Handed Massage

This is the ultimate massage experience. Two highly experienced Sexological bodyworkers will take you to a place you’ve never been before with this unique experience.  As always sessions are client lead & the touch is one way focussing on you.

Celebrate

Celebrate your body with a body cast. This is a special way to honour our unique beauty and individuality. The process is a celebration from start to finish and not at all mechanical.  options include genital casting, belly and or chest. The end result is a stunning piece of art for you to display in your home.

Are You facing challenges in your sex life?

Starting at $30 per-person

Live in-person workshops

Back to basics sex ed for adults. Anatomy, communication &consent. Learn how to touch. Patrick teams up with other Somatic Sex educators. These classes are fun & easy way to learn about your body in a safe  group setting.

Starting at $50 per download

Self pleasure restart Guide

Want to explore pleasure in your body from your own home? This online self pleasure journey can be done at your own pace, in your own place. There are 30 practises to experiment with. This Pdf document is jam packed with all the information you will need to get reconnected with your erotisim. If it’s been a while or even if you are highly sexed and want to explore something new.

Online by donation.

Erotic Embodiment Classes

Every Monday at 6:00 p.m. and Thursday at 8:00 a.m. Melbourne time. Patrick & other Somatic Sex educators teach 75 minute classes. Pay what ever you can afford. 

Want to experience Erotic Embodiment live and in person? Get on my mailing list, live classes are coming soon.

About me

I’m a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator & Relationship Coach

Growing up in a conservative Catholic  family in a small New Zealand town I was always curious about sex and pleasure. I knew there were secrets to accessing more pleasure in my body but we just don’t get taught how. Sexological Bodywork taught me how & my second year to training taught me how to teach others. Sexological Bodywork is a client lead modality focussing on the best way for your to learn how to access more pleasure in your body.

Useful Stuff

Sex toy reviews, guided meditations, resources.

Patrick & the 4 Erotic Explorers review sex toys of all sorts.

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Other useful websites, online classes & suggested reading list.

Happy Clients

People I’ve been privileged to have worked with reflecting on their experience.

5/5
Yummy, from start to finish. I realise I'm worth it. You found places that I didn't know could be massaged. Powerful session. Thank you.
A L
5/5
This has been a long time coming. I needed find a way to safely unfold into feeling comfortable taking up space in a room. Now I own it.
C P
5/5
The best touch. I felt safe & was pleased I could get such a great massage while staying fully dressed & under a warm blanket. I felt I was heard & made the total focus.
A H